Is Divorce Becoming a Trend? A Look at Modern Relationships


Lately, it seems like divorce has become more common than ever. It almost feels like it’s turning into a trend—something people follow without giving it much thought. A recent example that caught everyone’s attention is the split between Indian cricketer Yuzvendra Chahal and influencer Dhanashree Verma. Their separation has left many of us wondering: was their love real, or was it just attraction that eventually faded? True love doesn’t simply disappear overnight. 


Marriage is more than just two people being together; it’s about bringing two families together, blending traditions, and building a shared future. It’s about supporting each other through thick and thin, not just when things are easy. Unfortunately, in today’s fast-paced world, these values often seem to be forgotten, and the commitment that marriage requires is sometimes overlooked.

One thing that concerns me is how divorce is portrayed in the media. High-profile breakups often focus on drama and personal details, turning what is an incredibly personal experience into public entertainment. This portrayal makes divorce look like an easy way out when relationships hit a rough patch, rather than encouraging couples to work through their problems.

Another important issue is alimony. The original purpose of alimony laws was to support women who might not be financially independent after divorce. Historically, this made sense because many women depended on their husbands for financial support. But times have changed. More women are successful professionals today, and the rationale behind alimony needs to be updated.

Take the case of Chahal and Dhanashree, for example. Reports say that Dhanashree received an alimony of ₹4.35 crore. Considering that she is a successful, independent woman with a substantial income, this amount raises some serious questions. And since the couple doesn’t have children, the situation becomes even more complicated. 

This isn’t just about one celebrity couple—it highlights a bigger issue where some people may exploit legal systems for personal gain. Alimony laws exist to support those who truly need financial help after a divorce—not as a way for individuals who are already financially secure to get an extra windfall.

More broadly, the normalization of divorce could send the wrong message to younger generations. When divorce is portrayed as an easy escape from relationship challenges, it undermines the effort and commitment that marriage actually requires. Marriage should be about working through tough times together, not just walking away when things get difficult.

As a society, we need to reflect on what marriage truly means. It’s about communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to face challenges together. While divorce is sometimes necessary for people who are truly unhappy, it shouldn’t become a quick fix or a trend that people feel pressured to follow.

Richa Chauhan📝

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